New Belfast Birds Clients FAQ
Many people, both men and women, will have at some point considered employing the services of an escort, but never 'quite' got around to it. This can be for a variety of reasons such as limited finances, hang ups about paying for 'it', lack of confidence in meeting a stranger for social purposes or simply because they didn't know how to go about it! In an attempt to make life a little easier for new comers, we are going to address a few points here...
How Do I Book An Escort?
When contacting an escort for the first time, the 3 key points to remember are:
1) Be polite and respectful. An escort is a professional person who takes their work seriously. They are looking for clients who are equally serious in their intention to employ them and will be used to emails or calls from 'time wasters' so ensure that your email or telephone call does not suggest you fall into this category!
2) Be honest and informative. An escort will want to ensure that they can provide you with a satisfactory and enjoyable service but they are not mind readers, so do not expect them to know exactly what you want simply because they are professionals! You will get the most out of your date if you are honest about what you like, dislike and expect. If it is your first time, then tell the escort. Escorts warmly welcome new comers to the industry and will ensure that they put you at ease. If you have any problem areas then discuss this too. If emailing, include practical details such as your age, a telephone number, times you would be available and location you prefer. This avoids having to email back and forward several times. When replying to an escort by email, do an 'auto' reply so that all previous conversations are included in the email... Escorts may get many emails and it's easy to forget what has or has not been discussed! Also, remember that an escort is not someone you have to impress as you would a conventional date, so you can be blatantly honest without a fear of them being either shocked or judgmental. If an escort does not think they would be suitable for you they will tell you.
3) Respect the need for security. It should never be underestimated the risks that escorts, especially female, could be susceptible to in the course of their work. The risks however can be greatly reduced by escorts that follow safety precautions when meeting new clients for the first time. Almost all escorts will require a phone number and confirm they can contact you at that phone number before accepting your booking. Some escorts will ask to see identification (such as a passport) prior to entering a non-public place with a new client or have other security procedures in place. Whilst 99.9% of clients are genuine men or women, it is wise to appreciate and satisfy the security requirements of escorts as this enables them to relax and have a great time. If you are concerned about discretion... Don't be! The backbone of the escort industry is discretion, it simply could not survive without it. Escorts are probably the most discreet people you will ever encounter in your life!
How Do I Pay?
Almost always this will be by cash.
Payment should be placed in an envelope and given to the escort discreetly. Payment is always required PRIOR to the meeting getting 'under way'.
A key point to remember here is that you are paying for time and companionship. The escorts that advertise on this directory are not prostitutes and will not provide sexual services for payment. However, if during your appointment you both become attracted to each other and engage in sexual activity, it will be between two consenting adults and a matter of choice.
What Does Incall / Outcall Mean?
Incall (sometimes called 'callin') means an escort can provide accommodation for your appointment, usually their own home / apartment or hotel room if they are touring. Outcall (sometimes called 'callout') is the opposite and accommodation will be the clients responsibility.
What About First Time Nerves?
Always tell an escort if it is your first time and you are apprehensive. Escorts are very used to meeting new people and will quickly put you at ease and take the lead!
You may like to only book a short duration meeting initially, but don't assume that you can always extend a short meeting, as the escort may have other plans!
Do not ask an escort if they will meet you for free over a drink in order for you to decide whether you would like to book them! Time is money! Escorts do not meet clients for free.
If you have the slightest grievance about paying for escort services, then don't do it! If you feel you are great looking, have a hot body and that an escort should be grateful for you taking them out... Then don't do it! You will probably not have a good time as your arrogance will be felt by the escort, who simply does not need that kind of client. However, there is hope for you yet ;) Many people completely and genuinely change their attitude to escorting when they start to look at it from a different perspective and understand how it all works. Paying for escort services is no different to paying for any other service. You pay a fee and you expect a service provided, but as with any other profession or service, the more pleasant you are the better the service you will get! It is convenient, enjoyable, and a very cost effective way of spending leisure time! You know exactly what you will get, and you will get it the way YOU like it. Consider the costs of 'free' dating both in terms of money you have to spend and effort you have to put in to get the same results (either way you are still paying, and often a lot more!). With an escort you get to spend time with someone of YOUR choice, at a time that suits YOU.
Escorting is also a great way to build up your confidence and technique for real life dating! Problem issues can be addressed in the knowledge that you haven't got to impress anyone, and there is of course that wonderful element of excitement that comes with meeting with someone you don't know, in the safe knowledge that no one else will ever know either!
Do Escorts Enjoy Their Work?
A question often raised by potential clients is whether the escort enjoys their work and all elements that are included in the service they provide. The simple answer is YES, and if the client is nice and treats them well they will generally LOVE IT!
Escorting is a job that you would not last 5 minutes in if you didn't enjoy it! You will also find that escorts genuinely like meeting new people, they are usually highly sexed and very sociable people. They equally enjoy the excitement element and they are completely non-judgmental.
You will also find that the vast majority of escorts are very intelligent people, often with professional careers and qualifications that could earn them a very good living. This fact in itself should demonstrate that they wouldn't do it if they didn't enjoy it!